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Hello mate, I'm not part of the community but I just read the post. I looked around and I found this thread : https://en-forum.guildwars2.com/discussion/103650/lgbtqia-friendly-guild-court-of-the-mythical-beasts-myth-is-recruiting#latestMaybe try joining .As for life in general the only thing I can suggest to stranger on the internet is stay strong and try to be positive and do things you like, these are the things that keep us going.

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I feel like you need a hard dose of reality here. You're making yourself seem like alot of work and not alot of fun to be around, I think the original post was way too much information and all the additional stuff is bordering on red flags. Frankly you have a mental illness as I'm sure you are aware and you need to seek real practical help from whatever medical sources you have available.I have been through mental health struggles and I understand this is not an easy thing to be told point blank, but if you continue to push all your issues outward in this fashion you will be sorely disappointed. No one will ever come along and save you, it's not how life works, you have to make the big changes yourself. Sure you can seek help, but honestly the big change for me was getting a job. Being in a situation where you have to become functional is a big motivator and before you know it you will notice the improvements.But I promise you this is true, you will not find the solution by reaching out in this fashion as it actively drives people away and feeds your low self esteem. I tried dating websites for a while and after a few failed dates i was really down, but it was because i was desperately trying to find someone. I kid you not, a few months after i stopped looking, i met my wife. We got engaged a year later and within another 2 we got married.For the sake of everyone who has read your thread, please seek help instead of crying into the void.

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New year, new try...I know all of this is pretty text heavy above but I just wanted to give a warning based on previous experiences and I also would love to be around like minded people and have some sort of a safe environment. I don't want to give people sudden bad surprises and I want to be sure what I'm in for before too based on pretty terrible experience regarding my personality and the fact that I'm "different". I know I'm a terrible person and in the end I might fail everyone but I really hope that I'll find the right people for once.I can't simply start my own guild because of many reasons. one of it being my extreme anxiety and another the fact that my friendlist is dead for over 6 years and the other is that nobody would join. I already tried something like that once but it was not really something. I'm just a failure and maybe it's better that I stop continuing my search and stop playing the game altogether as it offers nothing to old veterans anymore, sadly.However I really hope that there are people out for me I can come to although everyone here hates me already as it shows by people agreeing to previous comments (my judgement is already done on here) and I should just leave instead of pestering you all...

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Please help... I know nobody wants me and I'm considering switching to NA servers but maybe there's still people who could message me...I'm just too desperate... I would post in the german forums if the people who sent me death threats in the old forums would be banned now but even reporting them didn't do shit and so I'm too afraid to say anything there so I try here and reddit hates me anyways.

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Hey, thanks for reaching out and sorry for being so inactive and answering pretty late. I had to take a break from the forums for personal reasons.

@desicator.3041 said:I have such a guild if you would like to try us out, Msg my discord - Seal#9966

Could you give some more information perhaps like a link to your recruitment post or anything. I'd like to know about such things beforehand to avoid awkward conversations as I'm normally not the one to reach out first due to me being too shy.

@"Zirael.4279" said:hey! Maybe my guild would suit you? you can check out this link for more info: https://en-forum.guildwars2.com/discussion/105186/eu-raids-fractals-pve-the-white-tower-is-looking-for-active-members/p1

If you feel like it would fit, send me a friend request on discord: Zirael#8424

I hope you're okay :)

I looked at the link and from what I've read I'm not very sure. Don't take it the wrong way. I'm just very insecure when it comes to looking for guilds and reaching out/messaging people at first. I'm not good at making the first move. Also thanks

Anyways, if someone here has one to offer please feel free to tell me as I'm currently very desperate with my search and I don't seem to have much luck here or on reddit.

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Hey there Cynder. You have clearly had a great deal of trouble finding just the right fit. As the founder of Tyrs Paladium, and founder of TWO alliances in two different games, I would like to take a stab and help you out even if you do not choose our guild to join. I have been through literally thousands of guild applications over the years and had to make all those decisions, time and time again, whether an applicant would fit in on not, before they join. I've regularly recommended other guilds if I felt they would have a better player experience.

Can you post A NEW STATEMENT OF what you would like in a guild, in a perfect world? A BULLET LIST with details/explanations. A guild that would make you the MOST comfortable. And don't feel bad, I COULDN'T FIND A GUILD EITHER , and decided screw it, and started my own over a DECADE ago. THAT guild is Tyrs Paladium.

So I know there is a guild out there for you. I have NO DOUBT in my mind.

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@Aandre the Giant.4615 said:Hey there Cynder. You have clearly had a great deal of trouble finding just the right fit. As the founder of Tyrs Paladium, and founder of TWO alliances in two different games, I would like to take a stab and help you out even if you do not choose our guild to join. I have been through literally thousands of guild applications over the years and had to make all those decisions, time and time again, whether an applicant would fit in on not, before they join. I've regularly recommended other guilds if I felt they would have a better player experience.

Can you post A NEW STATEMENT OF what you would like in a guild, in a perfect world? A BULLET LIST with details/explanations. A guild that would make you the MOST comfortable. And don't feel bad, I COULDN'T FIND A GUILD EITHER , and decided screw it, and started my own over a DECADE ago. THAT guild is Tyrs Paladium.

So I know there is a guild out there for you. I have NO DOUBT in my mind.

I've looked at your guild recruitment post and I don't think it's a fit since it's aimed towards an older generation which I don't fall into unfortunately.Although thanks for the heads up

PS: you don't have to use my account name and can safely call me by my name Hunter ^^

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@"Zirael.4279" said:hey! Maybe my guild would suit you? you can check out this link for more info:

If you feel like it would fit, send me a friend request on discord: Zirael#8424

I hope you're okay :)

I looked at the link and from what I've read I'm not very sure. Don't take it the wrong way. I'm just very insecure when it comes to looking for guilds and reaching out/messaging people at first. I'm not good at making the first move. Also thanks

Anyways, if someone here has one to offer please feel free to tell me as I'm currently very desperate with my search and I don't seem to have much luck here or on reddit.

If you don't think it fits you, that is perfectly fine :) I reached out first, so you wouldn't make the first move and I would be the one you would be talking to. You have gotten a lot of offers here, so I'm not exactly sure what you are looking for since you seem to turn them all down.In any case, the offer still stands. Take care!

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@Zirael.4279 said:

@Zirael.4279 said:hey! Maybe my guild would suit you? you can check out this link for more info:

If you feel like it would fit, send me a friend request on discord: Zirael#8424

I hope you're okay :)

I looked at the link and from what I've read I'm not very sure. Don't take it the wrong way. I'm just very insecure when it comes to looking for guilds and reaching out/messaging people at first. I'm not good at making the first move. Also thanks

Anyways, if someone here has one to offer please feel free to tell me as I'm currently very desperate with my search and I don't seem to have much luck here or on reddit.

If you don't think it fits you, that is perfectly fine :) I reached out first, so you wouldn't make the first move and I would be the one you would be talking to. You have gotten a lot of offers here, so I'm not exactly sure what you are looking for since you seem to turn them all down.In any case, the offer still stands. Take care!

It's mainly because I'm unsure if your guild or the other offers are LGBTQ friendly/inclusive as it's not described in the guild recruitment info.

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@Cynder.2509 said:

@Aandre the Giant.4615 said:Hey there Cynder. You have clearly had a great deal of trouble finding just the right fit. As the founder of Tyrs Paladium, and founder of TWO alliances in two different games, I would like to take a stab and help you out even if you do not choose our guild to join. I have been through literally thousands of guild applications over the years and had to make all those decisions, time and time again, whether an applicant would fit in on not, before they join. I've regularly recommended other guilds if I felt they would have a better player experience.

Can you post A NEW STATEMENT OF what you would like in a guild, in a perfect world? A BULLET LIST with details/explanations. A guild that would make you the MOST comfortable. And don't feel bad, I COULDN'T FIND A GUILD EITHER , and decided screw it, and started my own over a DECADE ago. THAT guild is Tyrs Paladium.

So I know there is a guild out there for you. I have NO DOUBT in my mind.

I've looked at your guild recruitment post and I don't think it's a fit since it's aimed towards an older generation which I don't fall into unfortunately.Although thanks for the heads up

PS: you don't have to use my account name and can safely call me by my name Hunter ^^

Hello there Hunter. We DO make exceptions with age. Send me a pm and let me know your age. I am not sure if it would or would not be a fit, but I DO know that I am interested to find out more info to see if it could be a fit. One thing you will not have to worry about, is we most definitely ARE LGBTQ FRIENDLY. No chance for harassment of any kind to be allowed in Tyrs Paladium.

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