I think we have a different ways of enjoying WvW. I like runing around, taging camps, killing enemies 1v1 - you seem to prefer organized GvG fights. I tried those and didn't like them at all, I'm not interested in joining voice, learning blob fighting strategies. I'm not saying that either of those are good or bad way to play WvW, just that different ppl enjoy diffrent things.
But it seems the current matchmaking system works better for ppl like you, who want to fight big with guild, while some of us more solo players are either put all together and no blob appears or we are on server where the main guild will do just GvG for few hours in the evening and then log off. On my current server (UW) we get some early morning ppt squads, so I know if there is annoying enemy blob I can just call them over. On this new server I have no idea how it works, what ppl are there, and it seems morning is just not their time (btw I'm in CET timezone, I just prefer playing mornings).
With servers I could notice which one is active in morning or which is focused on GvG and join the one I liked more. Now I would need to search for a guild instead, I guess?