Oh, don't worry. I know what my problem is and it's most likely related to the way it's forcing me to start a group and managing it instead of a one click and join a random group of people on specific roles assigned based on gear or some other factor, which is clearly not how everything is designed.
So, I believe that arenanet choosing a way to implement an lfg, gear builds is fine and I'm not really interested on criticizing how they want us to socialize either
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After reading some comments, I came to realize this simply isn't a mode I'm interested in. Unless of course, like I said before, I make 9 friends of mine to start playing the game with me.
You could say that meeting people, creating groups and guilds is part of the experience, so I should start my own group... I don't think I really care about that, but I don't think it's bad either, just not what I'm looking for right now.
In short, I believe the healthiest approach I could have is to think that this mode doesn't exist for me, ignore it completely and simply do whatever mode I find fun.