Drascious.5714 Posted November 25, 2020 Share Posted November 25, 2020 I feel like you need a hard dose of reality here. You're making yourself seem like alot of work and not alot of fun to be around, I think the original post was way too much information and all the additional stuff is bordering on red flags. Frankly you have a mental illness as I'm sure you are aware and you need to seek real practical help from whatever medical sources you have available.I have been through mental health struggles and I understand this is not an easy thing to be told point blank, but if you continue to push all your issues outward in this fashion you will be sorely disappointed. No one will ever come along and save you, it's not how life works, you have to make the big changes yourself. Sure you can seek help, but honestly the big change for me was getting a job. Being in a situation where you have to become functional is a big motivator and before you know it you will notice the improvements.But I promise you this is true, you will not find the solution by reaching out in this fashion as it actively drives people away and feeds your low self esteem. I tried dating websites for a while and after a few failed dates i was really down, but it was because i was desperately trying to find someone. I kid you not, a few months after i stopped looking, i met my wife. We got engaged a year later and within another 2 we got married.For the sake of everyone who has read your thread, please seek help instead of crying into the void. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted January 11, 2021 Author Share Posted January 11, 2021 New year, new try...I know all of this is pretty text heavy above but I just wanted to give a warning based on previous experiences and I also would love to be around like minded people and have some sort of a safe environment. I don't want to give people sudden bad surprises and I want to be sure what I'm in for before too based on pretty terrible experience regarding my personality and the fact that I'm "different". I know I'm a terrible person and in the end I might fail everyone but I really hope that I'll find the right people for once.I can't simply start my own guild because of many reasons. one of it being my extreme anxiety and another the fact that my friendlist is dead for over 6 years and the other is that nobody would join. I already tried something like that once but it was not really something. I'm just a failure and maybe it's better that I stop continuing my search and stop playing the game altogether as it offers nothing to old veterans anymore, sadly.However I really hope that there are people out for me I can come to although everyone here hates me already as it shows by people agreeing to previous comments (my judgement is already done on here) and I should just leave instead of pestering you all... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted February 23, 2021 Author Share Posted February 23, 2021 Please... it's urgent... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fatal.8693 Posted February 27, 2021 Share Posted February 27, 2021 Hello u OK Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
desicator.3041 Posted February 27, 2021 Share Posted February 27, 2021 I have such a guild if you would like to try us out, Msg my discord - Seal#9966 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zirael.4279 Posted March 2, 2021 Share Posted March 2, 2021 hey! Maybe my guild would suit you? you can check out this link for more info: https://en-forum.guildwars2.com/discussion/105186/eu-raids-fractals-pve-the-white-tower-is-looking-for-active-members/p1If you feel like it would fit, send me a friend request on discord: Zirael#8424I hope you're okay :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted April 6, 2021 Author Share Posted April 6, 2021 Hey, thanks for reaching out and sorry for being so inactive and answering pretty late. I had to take a break from the forums for personal reasons. @desicator.3041 said:I have such a guild if you would like to try us out, Msg my discord - Seal#9966Could you give some more information perhaps like a link to your recruitment post or anything. I'd like to know about such things beforehand to avoid awkward conversations as I'm normally not the one to reach out first due to me being too shy. @"Zirael.4279" said:hey! Maybe my guild would suit you? you can check out this link for more info: https://en-forum.guildwars2.com/discussion/105186/eu-raids-fractals-pve-the-white-tower-is-looking-for-active-members/p1If you feel like it would fit, send me a friend request on discord: Zirael#8424I hope you're okay :) I looked at the link and from what I've read I'm not very sure. Don't take it the wrong way. I'm just very insecure when it comes to looking for guilds and reaching out/messaging people at first. I'm not good at making the first move. Also thanksAnyways, if someone here has one to offer please feel free to tell me as I'm currently very desperate with my search and I don't seem to have much luck here or on reddit. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aandre the Giant.4615 Posted April 7, 2021 Share Posted April 7, 2021 Hey there Cynder. You have clearly had a great deal of trouble finding just the right fit. As the founder of Tyrs Paladium, and founder of TWO alliances in two different games, I would like to take a stab and help you out even if you do not choose our guild to join. I have been through literally thousands of guild applications over the years and had to make all those decisions, time and time again, whether an applicant would fit in on not, before they join. I've regularly recommended other guilds if I felt they would have a better player experience.Can you post A NEW STATEMENT OF what you would like in a guild, in a perfect world? A BULLET LIST with details/explanations. A guild that would make you the MOST comfortable. And don't feel bad, I COULDN'T FIND A GUILD EITHER , and decided screw it, and started my own over a DECADE ago. THAT guild is Tyrs Paladium.So I know there is a guild out there for you. I have NO DOUBT in my mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted April 7, 2021 Author Share Posted April 7, 2021 @Aandre the Giant.4615 said:Hey there Cynder. You have clearly had a great deal of trouble finding just the right fit. As the founder of Tyrs Paladium, and founder of TWO alliances in two different games, I would like to take a stab and help you out even if you do not choose our guild to join. I have been through literally thousands of guild applications over the years and had to make all those decisions, time and time again, whether an applicant would fit in on not, before they join. I've regularly recommended other guilds if I felt they would have a better player experience.Can you post A NEW STATEMENT OF what you would like in a guild, in a perfect world? A BULLET LIST with details/explanations. A guild that would make you the MOST comfortable. And don't feel bad, I COULDN'T FIND A GUILD EITHER , and decided screw it, and started my own over a DECADE ago. THAT guild is Tyrs Paladium.So I know there is a guild out there for you. I have NO DOUBT in my mind. I've looked at your guild recruitment post and I don't think it's a fit since it's aimed towards an older generation which I don't fall into unfortunately.Although thanks for the heads up PS: you don't have to use my account name and can safely call me by my name Hunter ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zirael.4279 Posted April 8, 2021 Share Posted April 8, 2021 @"Zirael.4279" said:hey! Maybe my guild would suit you? you can check out this link for more info: https://en-forum.guildwars2.com/discussion/105186/eu-raids-fractals-pve-the-white-tower-is-looking-for-active-members/p1If you feel like it would fit, send me a friend request on discord: Zirael#8424I hope you're okay :) I looked at the link and from what I've read I'm not very sure. Don't take it the wrong way. I'm just very insecure when it comes to looking for guilds and reaching out/messaging people at first. I'm not good at making the first move. Also thanksAnyways, if someone here has one to offer please feel free to tell me as I'm currently very desperate with my search and I don't seem to have much luck here or on reddit. If you don't think it fits you, that is perfectly fine :) I reached out first, so you wouldn't make the first move and I would be the one you would be talking to. You have gotten a lot of offers here, so I'm not exactly sure what you are looking for since you seem to turn them all down.In any case, the offer still stands. Take care! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted April 8, 2021 Author Share Posted April 8, 2021 @Zirael.4279 said:@Zirael.4279 said:hey! Maybe my guild would suit you? you can check out this link for more info: https://en-forum.guildwars2.com/discussion/105186/eu-raids-fractals-pve-the-white-tower-is-looking-for-active-members/p1If you feel like it would fit, send me a friend request on discord: Zirael#8424I hope you're okay :) I looked at the link and from what I've read I'm not very sure. Don't take it the wrong way. I'm just very insecure when it comes to looking for guilds and reaching out/messaging people at first. I'm not good at making the first move. Also thanksAnyways, if someone here has one to offer please feel free to tell me as I'm currently very desperate with my search and I don't seem to have much luck here or on reddit. If you don't think it fits you, that is perfectly fine :) I reached out first, so you wouldn't make the first move and I would be the one you would be talking to. You have gotten a lot of offers here, so I'm not exactly sure what you are looking for since you seem to turn them all down.In any case, the offer still stands. Take care! It's mainly because I'm unsure if your guild or the other offers are LGBTQ friendly/inclusive as it's not described in the guild recruitment info. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aandre the Giant.4615 Posted April 9, 2021 Share Posted April 9, 2021 @Cynder.2509 said:@Aandre the Giant.4615 said:Hey there Cynder. You have clearly had a great deal of trouble finding just the right fit. As the founder of Tyrs Paladium, and founder of TWO alliances in two different games, I would like to take a stab and help you out even if you do not choose our guild to join. I have been through literally thousands of guild applications over the years and had to make all those decisions, time and time again, whether an applicant would fit in on not, before they join. I've regularly recommended other guilds if I felt they would have a better player experience.Can you post A NEW STATEMENT OF what you would like in a guild, in a perfect world? A BULLET LIST with details/explanations. A guild that would make you the MOST comfortable. And don't feel bad, I COULDN'T FIND A GUILD EITHER , and decided screw it, and started my own over a DECADE ago. THAT guild is Tyrs Paladium.So I know there is a guild out there for you. I have NO DOUBT in my mind. I've looked at your guild recruitment post and I don't think it's a fit since it's aimed towards an older generation which I don't fall into unfortunately.Although thanks for the heads up PS: you don't have to use my account name and can safely call me by my name Hunter ^^ Hello there Hunter. We DO make exceptions with age. Send me a pm and let me know your age. I am not sure if it would or would not be a fit, but I DO know that I am interested to find out more info to see if it could be a fit. One thing you will not have to worry about, is we most definitely ARE LGBTQ FRIENDLY. No chance for harassment of any kind to be allowed in Tyrs Paladium. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted June 9, 2021 Author Share Posted June 9, 2021 Okay, new forums, new boost let's go. I could really need an offering since r/guildrecruitement is kinda ruined for me right now due to an imposter ruining it for me. So I try it here once again. Feel free to contact me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted June 9, 2021 Author Share Posted June 9, 2021 On 4/9/2021 at 2:08 AM, Aandre the Giant.4615 said: I've looked at your guild recruitment post and I don't think it's a fit since it's aimed towards an older generation which I don't fall into unfortunately.Although thanks for the heads up PS: you don't have to use my account name and can safely call me by my name Hunter ^^ Hello there Hunter. We DO make exceptions with age. Send me a pm and let me know your age. I am not sure if it would or would not be a fit, but I DO know that I am interested to find out more info to see if it could be a fit. One thing you will not have to worry about, is we most definitely ARE LGBTQ FRIENDLY. No chance for harassment of any kind to be allowed in Tyrs Paladium. Yeah but I don't really think I'd be a good fit according to some experiences I had with no age limitation guild that allowed everyone. It was kind of a mess in two of these and I better not be a burden for your guild. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aandre the Giant.4615 Posted June 10, 2021 Share Posted June 10, 2021 We definitely do NOT allow just anyone. We are very selective in order to give our guildies the best player experience possible to play in. Good luck to you in your search! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted July 7, 2021 Author Share Posted July 7, 2021 Sorry for the bump but I still couldn't manage to find the right one and I'm not really the one to make the first move of contact due to my anxiety. I thank you for recommendations and stuff but I just seem to have no actual luck yet when engaging myself into messaging. Also I didn't have any luck with the guild overall. Longest I lasted was like 8 months or so and it makes me very sad and I'm about to give up searching. I've hopelessly searched and asked on here, on reddit and lately in lfg (although I despise lfg due to old bad experiences back then)... PS: as the title says, it should be on EU and LGBTQ+ mainly. Also it shouldn't be a guild that only accepts members over 30+ because I can only join in 8 years. However I don't really care for age stuff but please make it at least 18+ and maybe have an active supporting discord community with dedicated channels and events. I really miss hanging out with people doing stuff ingame and out of the game. 😞 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted October 1, 2021 Author Share Posted October 1, 2021 Hey, I'm still looking for one. Please message me if you have an offer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted November 15, 2021 Author Share Posted November 15, 2021 Still open. Please mesaage me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted December 24, 2021 Author Share Posted December 24, 2021 Kinda hoping for a christmas miracle or something nice on my birthday next week but aparantly people ignore me and hate me as it seems... 😞 I just don't want to be so lonely anymore... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted September 3, 2022 Author Share Posted September 3, 2022 Sorry for bump but it's still relevant. Anyone out there? please Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted March 29, 2023 Author Share Posted March 29, 2023 Still looking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted March 29, 2023 Author Share Posted March 29, 2023 The guild itself doesn't need to be entirely lgbt focused but at least friendly. Had my share of bad experiences already. I'm an experienced raider and veteran. I can play power DH, condi harbinger, condi quick harbinger and heal druid. I also have a bit of experience with a few CMs. Overall I'd just want a laid back and more casual atmosphere instead of being stressed. If someone has an offer please feel free to contact me here, ingame or in Discord Hunter#9090 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alva.4590 Posted March 30, 2023 Share Posted March 30, 2023 Are you still looking? Our guild might be the right one for you 🙂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynder.2509 Posted April 2, 2023 Author Share Posted April 2, 2023 On 3/31/2023 at 1:18 AM, Glael.7643 said: Are you still looking? Our guild might be the right one for you 🙂 Hey, which one do you mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jarv.1972 Posted April 3, 2023 Share Posted April 3, 2023 Hi, we may be suitable for you. we have a post here with more information. Even if we're not what you are looking for. I'd be happy to play some content if you need some help or want someone to talk to in-game. While we're not a raiding guild as yet it's definitely something we will be aiming to do. You're more than welcome to join and see how friendly our members are and if you don't like us there'll be no hard feelings Happy Hunting, Jarv The Peoples Front of Tyria Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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