You're implying that at one time in the past everything was rainbows and unicorns, everyone got along perfectly fine, and when a TA group stomped a PUG that was on a winning streak they were all like "Whoa! GG guys, we all learned something valuable today! Thanks for beating us!". Even back in GW1, we shit-talked each other. I remember the first time I brought my PvE ALT Monk ( Mo/A with a meta PvP build ) into RA sometime back in 2006, this one Assassin in our team just kept straight trashing me for being bad, not knowing what my build does ( standard WoH build ), and for spamming my skill bar on our allies in an effort to keep them topped-off ( which is bad, just need to keep them alive ). We got 3 wins, but I was so mad that I...went online and looked up how to play Monk in PvP, learned from the experience, watched some archaic videos at that time, made some PvP friends, and continued practicing. By the time I left GW1 in 2011 or 2012, I was a half-decent healer across the PvP content; low-level GvG's included. And you know what? To this day I main healers/supports in games outside of GW2 because of that one incident 14-years ago. If someone's being an asshole, just call them an asshole. But if they have a point, or make you remotely question your decision(s), you should at least look to see if they were correct post-match. I do this all the time because I'm not perfect. I still make mistakes in game and in life. I learn from it, and try to become better in the future. I would still be a really, really, horrible healer had I just clammed-up and ignored that "toxic" Assassin all those years ago. You don't learn anything if you think you're right all the time, and everyone else around you is wrong.